something to think about....

People we feel difficult to love are mostly the people we need most to understand ourself.

Flatter me, and I may not believe you.
Criticize me, and I may not like you.
Ignore me, and I may not forgive you.

Encourage me, and I may not forget you.

Friendship is the true intention wishing the best for your friend.
It's not about sex, jalousy, greedynes, attachment, proudness and/or anger.
Further more it is the higher level of development you wish for your own.